Seniors Seeking Seniors
Older adults have many different needs and wants when it comes to a relationship. There are multiple benefits to being in a healthy relationship. Some seniors are looking for a committed, long term partner while others are simply seeking a companion to attend events or go out to dinner or a movie. Whatever you are seeking, if you are over 60 there are some safe options available to try and make a connection.
Forbes.com did an analysis of the larger online senior dating websites based on how they screen and match people (The Best Dating Sites For Seniors In 2024 – Forbes Health) . You can expect to be asked to fill out a questionnaire, some have a fill in the blanks format, and almost all will ask about things like smoking and drinking habits. You will be asked to create a profile with some general information about yourself. This is where you can share some specific things about yourself that may attract potential matches like “love to ballroom dance”. Be careful not to give out your full name or address.
There may be a cost which is very common among the more reputable sites. Many will allow you to open a basic profile for free but will limit you from viewing all matches unless you upgrade for a cost. There should be immediate red flags for anyone asking for money from you or sharing their financial hardships online with you. Many dating scammers will ask for gift cards to be sent to them and any interaction with someone who does so should be reported to the dating app administrator. When searching for a site to use look for ones that do “sex offender checks” to be extra careful.
It may have been a long time since a senior has been on a date. Unfortunately, we live in a very different world and your safety needs to be a top priority despite being excited about a potential match. Do not ever go on a date without telling a trusted friend or family member where you are going and the name of your companion. Try to coordinate first dates as a daytime affair, brunch or lunch. Avoid dark or isolated places especially at night. Only meet in public places where you can make a quick escape if something doesn’t feel right. Trust your intuition!
Finding a companion later in life can benefit people in various ways. Studies over many years have shown that people in committed relationships are happier, healthier, and live longer than singles. There are trustworthy dating sites for seniors if you follow some of these safety guidelines. You never know unless you try, you may find a new valentine!