BE YOUR BEST SELF EVERY DAY!
By Jerry O’Meara
While speaking with a good friend recently, he shared that despite all the successes he had achieved- building a solid marriage, family, and much success in his profession he still felt negative about many aspects of his life.
Even though he was ahead of most people I know regarding achievements, something was missing.
To be our best selves, we must realize that we do not have to win the game of life every day. That would be exhausting!
If we can look into the mirror and say to ourselves “I did my best today” that is reason enough to be proud of ourselves.
However, what happens when we look into the mirror and can only say “I could have done better today”?
Humanity dictates that we make poor choices, do not always give our best, and blunder from time to time.
It is easy to fall into the trap of allowing the negativity in our lives and in the world to spoil our day. This is a most dangerous trap because it sets us up for self-doubt which can crush our spirit.
I feel pity for some politicians because it seems as if they are always angry. Do they wake up angry every morning? If so, what a horrible way to live one’s life!
I will finish my thoughts with two quotes from a former president.
“Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
“It is difficult to make a man miserable while he feels worthy of himself and claims kindred to the great God who made him.” Abraham Lincoln.
If you want to be your best self, take control of your emotions, focus on the positives in life, and see how many of your smiles are returned with a smile!
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